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Friday, August 18th, 2006There comes a time when relationships reach a point where commitment is made and this commitment points to the future.
Couples would like the future be something that they have always wanted it to be. When one party describes his/her version of what he/she wants his/her future to be but the other party.. does not have the same things in mind, it’s hard to ask for commitment, nor is it fair to each other if the future in his/her own mind is different than what has been described by the first party. Sometimes its about give and take, sometimes its best if they separate, but whats most important that neither party have any regrets.
When the seconnd party wishes for a temporary break to think things through, its hard for the 1st party to be totally understanding and unemotional..actually its impposible,
but there are some out there.. who understands and wishes that the second party takes his/her time and come up with a decision without regrets, some who can love so much that they are willing to let go and just trust or hope that their love will come back some day. But if the time comes and the second party…..does not return….. it is always best for the first party to do things that he/she would regret if left undone. Things like watching a movie, a present that was promised but not given, small things that were promised and not fulfilled.
And if the time comes and the second party does not return, the first party would have less regrets. It wont be entirely void of it, thats for sure, but he/she can live with the thought that he/she tried…
and giving it all, is wat it means to love someone…….sometimes..